Yadda Ake Gamsar Da Harijin Namiji Cikin Sauki
Gamsar da namiji a jima’ince yafi sauki wajen gamsar da mace, duk kuwa
da cewa dukkannin halittan da aka yiwa mace a jima’ince suma maza suna
da irinsa. Kamar yadda ake samun harijin namiji haka nan ma
ake samu harijan mace, yadda ake samu mazan da suke jimawa babu gajiya
a lokacin jima’i hakama matan. Ana samun maza da mata ragwaye a wajen
jima’i da kuma wadanda sam jima’in ma bata damesu ba a dukkannin
jinsunan biyu.
Karanta Wannan: Hanyoyi Biyar Da Za'a Bi Domin Kada A Dauki Ciki
Da akwai wasu mazan da basu cika son doguwar wasannin motsa sha’awa
ba, wasu kuwa suna bukatan lokaci maitsawo ana masu wasa duk kuwa da
macen tafi namiji bukatar wasan motsa sha’awa mai tsawo.
Abu na farko daya kamata mace ta fahimta a tattare da mijinta shine
abunda yafi bukata a yayi wasannin motsa sha’awa da kuma lokacin
kwanciya irin na jima’i, domin da akwai inda da zaran mace ta tabawa
mijinta maimakon ta motsa mishi sha’awarsa sai kawai sha’awar tashi ya
gushe. Hakama a kwanciyar jima’i, yana da kyau ki fahimci irin yanayin
kwanciyar da mijinki yake so. Shi yasa malamai na jima’i sukecewa
sadarwa a jima’i yanada matukar alfanu ga ma’aurata domin ta hanyarce
zasu iya fihimtar abubuwan da suke bukata a yi musu kamin, lokaci da
kuma bayan jima’i.
Da akwai mazan da zaran mace ta fara wasa dasu nan da nan suke gamsuwa
ba tareda sun shegetaba, da akwai wadanda da zaran azzakarinsu ya
shiga shikenen kuma sunyi zuwan kai kenan. A akwai mazan da sukan
dauki lokacin mai tsawo suna jima’i da mace kamin suyi zuwan kai, wasu
mazan kuwa a lokacin da suke kawowa a lokacin ne gabansu ke kara yin
karfi har sai sun kawo sama da biyu koma biyar kamin suke gamsuwa da
mace. Ke naki mijin yaya yake, domin dole sai kin fahimci yadda yake
kamin ki iya gamsar dashi.
Sai dai maza masu wuyan sha’ani a jerin mazan da na ambata sune masu saurin zuwan kai da kuma masu daukan lokaci mai tsawo suna gurza mace basu gamsu ba, sai dai kuma da zaran mace ta samun illimin sarrafa
irin wadannan maza ta gama dasu. Maza masu saurin zuwan kai sune mazan da sukafi cutar da matansu, domin wata matan sai ta gurzu
take gamsuwa, don haka matsalar irrin wannan mazan yana tattare ne da
kodai suna da cuta da suke bukatar ganin likita, ko kuma sabbin shiga ne wato mazan da suka yi aure sabo-sabo ko suka jima basu yi jima’i ba
hakan na faruwa da su.
Domin samun cikenken illimin yadda zaki gamsar da mijinki, kina iya tuntubata ta email ko lambar wata domin taimaka miki da wasu shawarwari. Ganin a wannan shafin hakan bazai samu ba kamar yadda ya kamata
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